In our family we have WWF (world wrestling federation) nicknames for ourselves.
They are as follows; (must be said in WWF aggressive gravelly voice)
the boy - "Captain Never Happy"
the girl - "Truth Stretcher"
daddy - "Dream Crusher"
myself - "Joy Killer"
Joy Killer reared her ugly head today.
My daughter bless her heart, has an out of control entrepreneurial spirit.
She wants to make money.
And she wants to make it now.
Target date : August 9th, local rodeo garage bake sale table.
I of course am caught up in the hurricane of her schemes ... and can not stop her.
I am along for the ride, whether I like it or not.
In the last two days, I was host to 17 dozen cookies, a bazillion cupcakes, 20 gallons of icing, cake sprinkles sprinkled across my floor.... and needless to say I was a little bit grumpy. My grumpiness was killing her joy. She was indeed joyful as she toted her baked goods to the truck, and dreamt of the cash she would make.
I knew my heart wasn't in the right place, and when we prepared to haul the goods into the hall, I sighed a quick prayer, "Lord please let me have the right attitude towards this."
We had to go back and forth between truck and hall, and a gentleman stopped and asked if he could help me carry anything. Exasperated I looked at him and said, "Yes." As we walked to the truck I gave him a quick briefing .... "It's my daughter. She wants to make money to go to Disneyland."
"Oh that's wonderful!" he exclaimed. "She's a little entrepreneur!"
I told him how I did not have the right attitude and he went on to say, "Oh no, if she has that drive it has to be encouraged. The entrepreneurial spirit is what has got me through life. Please encourage her." I wanted to tell him right then and there that this encounter was an answer to prayer.
(An almost immediate answer to prayer.)
I don't know how or in what order his story came tumbling out, but he mentioned that his family got to go to Disneyland and important that was for them, as 3 months after the trip his 11 yr old sister was killed by a drunk driver. He treasured the memories of his time in Disneyland with his sister.
It's pretty cool the unexpected ways that God shows up.
I was able to shake Joy Killer, and encourage my daughter as I should have been doing all along.
She made $105. From experience, if you ever endeavour a bake sale table.... cookies and rice krispie squares - YES - cupcakes NO.
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